Sep 26 2011

{ Then There Were Three … }

The Fulton house fell through. Too much money for all the repairs it needed. Built in 1928 and never updated. 3 bedrooms/1 bath. No functional garage.

And yet I still love that house. Kind of want to call the owner and tell them I was just kidding. I’ll take it. But I am positive my family members would quit talking to me.

Wish I was: fearless and knew how to use power tools.

I think of this quote:

Knowledge is knowing a tomato is a fruit (the Fulton house has amazing potential and I will hate whoever ends up buying it because it should be mine).

Wisdom is knowing not to put it in a fruit salad (Regardless, I would be in over my head).

Spent some time over at my sister’s house yesterday. I brought up baby stuff and touched her belly every time she walked by me. We talked about losing baby weight and she made the mistake of asking how long it took me to get rid of it (Caeden = back into clothes in about 3 weeks. Claire = took me almost a year. OMG. Who admits that?!)

Feeling good about my decision to keep the “after” posts private.

Feeling good about blogging more fun stuff here for you guys. Less sad more pretty (pretty houses, pretty pictures, pretty …) and then when you see a password post, just know it says things like, “THINGS ARE NOT PRETTY.” ha

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amy - September 26, 2011 - 7:38 am

don’t feel the least bit bad about those password protected posts.. share what you want it’s your blog..sorry the house fell through..disappointing for sure.. might just mean there is a better one waiting for you.

Lita - September 26, 2011 - 7:52 am

I know you are heartbroken about the house, but I really, really think that everything will line up just right. And I think Amy is right: the absolute right house is waiting for the absolute right time for you you and the chickens. And I can’t wait to see what it turns out to be!

Laura - September 26, 2011 - 9:07 am

Sorry to hear the house didn’t work out but happy that you realized it now. Spend your energy on the kiddos and yourself …

and I love the password protected posts because it’s a sign that you’re listening to your gut, your intuition, your inner voice. you don’t need others to tell you, confirm you, agree/disagree with you – which is so awesome for you! trust your gut, val. you got this girl.

Kelly - September 26, 2011 - 9:45 am

Blog posts with you in the pictures = pretty.

Allison H. - September 26, 2011 - 10:38 am

A little book of quotes made by kids came with one of my daughter’s toys. I tore this one out and hung it on my bulletin board because it was my favorite. It is from a 4-year old named Katie- “You know what? Not all dreams come true. But that’s okay because you can always make new dreams.” You will still find a beautiful dream home wherever it may be, with safe electrical and plumbing too . Home is wherever you and your chickens are and that is the most beautiful part of a home anyway, the people who live in it and call it home. Good Luck!!

Kati Wessinger - September 26, 2011 - 2:07 pm

earlier today, while skimming pinterest, I came upon the photo you took of your sister when she announced her pregnancy. engaged in your writing and photos, I continued exploring your blog — found pieces of you that were beautiful and heartbreaking at the same time. i think i read nearly every post for the past year (or more) and just wanted you to know that even though i don’t know you, i am sending hugs your way and think you’re doing a great job. your house will come and one day you’ll look back and see the loss of the fulton house as such a blessing.

adding your blog to my list of blogs to read. i cannot wait to continue following your story.

kelly - September 26, 2011 - 7:49 pm

You are making the right choice. You have knowledge, wisdom and 2 of the cutest chickens I have ever seen! Your little boy is looking so grown up. By the way, your outfit is adorable.

elizabeth pellette - September 27, 2011 - 12:17 pm

as much as you love it.. its not the right house for you.. so … no worries.. You will find it.. and it will be so much better than that one.. in so many ways.. that you will be like.. hmm yeah so glad I waited.. its coming.. the perfect place.. just be patient..

Mirys - September 27, 2011 - 1:01 pm

I want this password, Val. Sharing is a part of my healing process!….

PS: you look GORGEOUS on this picture! Oh my gosh!!! The boys in this new city of yours are soooooooo lucky to have you walking around! LoL (but still true)

Kisses and blessings.
Mirys
http://www.diariodos3mosqueteiros.blogspot.com
(from Brazil)

K. - September 28, 2011 - 2:44 pm

So, I know I can’ t be the only one out there wondering… WHERE did you find that amazing sweater in today and yesterday’s post (dressing room pic)?! Love it!!

Also, props to you for having the courage to be able to tell us all that you want to keep a little bit private now. You deserve it. I know there’s no way I could bare my soul the way you have, but seeing the strength, hope, and inspiration you have given others makes me realize something truly wonderful can come from opening your soul to the world.

Valerie - September 28, 2011 - 2:58 pm

K … Sweater Dress is from Anthropologie. Here’s the link to make it super easy to throw down on your credit card …

http://www.anthropologie.com/anthro/catalog/productdetail.jsp?id=23103690&catId=CLOTHES-DRESSES&pushId=CLOTHES-DRESSES&popId=CLOTHES&navCount=36&color=016&isProduct=true&fromCategoryPage=true&isSubcategory=true&subCategoryId=CLOTHES-DRESSES&templateType=subCategory

I’ll warn you that’s it’s a bit see through, so I layer it with a long, white tee.

In the Moment | Valerie Koop

{ Then There Were Three … }