{ 2010. The End. }

It’s time to turn this year’s blog entries into a book. A book for the chickens to look back on (when they can read and don’t just manhandle the pages, mind you.) when they are curious about what 2010 was all about. I can just hear Claire saying, “Mom?! You dressed like that?!” And Caeden, “Seriously, all I cared about is garbage trucks. How simple life was back then …”

Or maybe they will never read them. But I promise you, I will.

Don’t want to forget the day to day. The joy. The less than. The recipes, the inside jokes, the daily tidbits that make up our family. Our life.

So, if you blog, you may wonder where to look to publish your own book. Look here: Blurb.

(2010: The year Claire Bear turned 2.)

(2010: Caeden heads to Kindergarten.)

(2010: The year the Apple Tree bore fruit.)

(2010: The year I chased my dreams. The year Wayne cheered me on.)

(Oh, and photo credit to my favorite trail mix eating, sarcastic, miss you like crazy, never lets one slip – friend. Heather McCollom)

I’d love to join the masses and declare my resolutions. But this year, I am taking a kinder … more gentle approach to the fresh start. No deadlines. No numbers. No timeline. No pressure. Just … gentle promises for the life I attempt.

Promises to myself to not be in such a hurry. To BE more often. To be a good Mama who doesn’t worry as much about the future as much as she enjoys the moments before her.

To be good to my family. To be the kind of friend that my friends are to me.

To trust in God’s plan.

To look forward … knowing a lot is out of my control, but loving and being and accepting it all as it comes … these are the things I promise to myself.

And I think, most of what I want … I wouldn’t have known it or thought about it or cared nearly as much as I do, had I not had 2010 to ground me. To really humble me.

And that? That is called progress … and the New Year has yet to arrive.

mom - December 31, 2010 - 10:54 am

It is also known as WISDOM. Good Job, Valerie!!

Kelly - December 31, 2010 - 10:55 am

Perfectly said, Val. Wishing that 2011 will bring EVERY grace and blessing in the heavens straight to you.

Calabaza - December 31, 2010 - 11:04 am

{ A Special Mama }

“To give credit where credit is due.
Is a tremendously difficult thing at times.”

Your 2010 brought…

A mama who held down the fort.
During a year of heartache; of turmoil; of significant twists and turns. Oftentimes, in unbearable ways unknown to the rest of the world.

Yet…

Through all of this, she adapted to the never-ending, life altering circumstances in which she, oftentimes, stood alone.
Surrounded by a close-knit circle of friends and family. Yet, standing alone in the sense that those truly close to her understand how strong and independent “she,” really is.

But, oh, the irony in describing someone who is so strong, assertive, and energetic as Humble, Modest and Nurturing… is to be pondered.

. . .

We all have a lot to learn about Life. Living. Love. from a person like you.

Thanks for inspiring so many of us throughout OUR 2010.

God bless you and yours.

Jess - December 31, 2010 - 11:18 am

Cheers to gentle promises!!!!

Nicole - December 31, 2010 - 11:43 am

Absolutely lovely words. I raise my glass :) xoxoxo

jael deyoung - December 31, 2010 - 12:48 pm

beautifully said Val. here’s to you and your family…wishing you peace and joy for 2011. =)

heather - December 31, 2010 - 5:02 pm

and my photo credit is where?!!?!..love the post sans credit and LOVE the message. xo

Carrie Felton - December 31, 2010 - 7:17 pm

You are AMAZING!!!! You have taught me so much….Thank You!!
Carrie

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